“Margaret Gibson has plumbed silence and secrets, class and
consciousness to produce this exquisite jewel of a memoir. The
Prodigal Daughter is as much a portrait of the artist as a young
girl as it is a meditation upon the way art can come from
calamity—sometimes, as here, producing a final, hard-won kind of grace.
This is a poet’s book, with rigorous, beautiful language; indelible
images (oh Lord, the old lady in the red kimono!), and insights that
took my breath away.”—Lee Smith, author of The Last Girls
“Margaret Gibson’s memoir is a vivid account
of a child of the South who feels both estranged from and entrenched in
southern culture. She makes us care about this young girl who, with
energy and imagination, struggles to find her own mind and heart in a
time of civil rights ferment and religious change. Gibson’s prose is
impeccable, her portrayal of characters precise, giving the reader a
glimpse of historical change through the eyes of a sensitive and
insightful girl. The transition from child moving toward adulthood to
child assuming responsibility for her own aging parents and a disabled
sister is plausible, poignant, and instructive.”
—Elizabeth Cox, author
of The Slow Moon
“Margaret Gibson's The Prodigal Daughter is a lovely memoir, rich
with family history, vivid details, and
a lively sense of storytelling. It is a moving story of self-discovery
and awareness within a complex family portrait.”—Jill McCorkle, author
of The Cheer Leader
The 1950s and 1960s were years of
shifting values and social changes that did not sit well with many
citizens of Richmond, Virginia, and in particular with one conservative
family, a staunchly southern mother and father and their two daughters.
A powerful evocation of time and place, this memoir—a gifted poet's
first book of prose—is the story of an inquisitive and sensitive young
woman's coming of age and a deeply moving recounting of her
reconciliation later in life with the family she left behind.
Returning us to a Cold War
world marked by divisions of race, gender, wealth, and class, The
Prodigal Daughter is an exploration of difference, the
powerful wedge that separates individuals within a social milieu and
within a family. Echoing the biblical Prodigal Son, Margaret Gibson's
memoir is less concerned with the years of excess away from home than
with the seeds of division sown in this family's early years. Hers is
the story of a mother proud to be a Lady, a Southerner, and a Christian;
of two daughters trapped by their mother's power; and of their father's
breakdown under social and family expectations.
Slow to rebel, young
Margaret finally flees the world of manners and custom—which she deems
poor substitutes for right thought and right action in the face of the
Civil Rights movement and the Vietnam War—and abandons her
fundamentalist upbringing. In a defiant gesture that proves prophetic,
she once signed a postcard home "The Prodigal." After years of being
the distant, absent daughter, she finds herself returning home to meet
the needs of her stroke-crippled younger sister and her incapacitated
parents.
In this tale of homecoming
and forgiveness, death and dying, Gibson recounts how she overcame her
long indifference to a sister she had thought different from herself,
recognizing the strengths of the bonds that both hold us and set us
free. Interweaving
astute social observations on social
pressures, race relations, sibling rivalry, adolescent angst, and more,
The Prodigal Daughter is a startlingly honest portrayal of one
family in one southern city and the story of all too many families
across America.
About the Author
Margaret Gibson is the author of nine books of
poetry, most recently Icon and Evidence, Autumn Grasses, and
One Body. She is Professor Emeritus of English at the University of
Connecticut and lives in Preston, Connecticut.